JOI's life and E.T.A.'s founding — "whom Incandenza’d met at a U…"
whom Incandenza’d met at a U. Toronto conference on Reflective vs. Reflexive Systems
Context
How the optics man met the grammarian: the conference name splits exactly down the marriage's two disciplines — Reflective (his mirrors and lenses) vs. Reflexive (her syntax). The whole Incandenza union held in a one-word optics/grammar pun.