The impossibility of sharing pain — communication-solipsism at monologue length
echoes
From: The Depressed Person
- Early text: "The depressed person was in terrible and
unceasing emotional pain, and the impossibility of sharing or articulating
this pain was itself a component of the pain and a contributing factor in
its essential horror." [opening]; the Support System telephony — after each
long-distance call she sits "listening to the empty apian drone of the dial
tone and feeling even more isolated and inadequate and contemptible than
she had before she’d called" [mid]; the ending's discovery that "she could
neither feel nor identify any real feelings within herself for the
therapist", closing on "such a solipsistic, self-consumed, endless
emotional vacuum and sponge as she now appeared to herself to be" [close].
- IJ echo: IJ's solipsism-and-connection problem — Kate Gompert's
inability to make her depression legible to the ward; the AA insistence
that isolation is the addict's/depressive's killer; the novel's pervasive
doubt that one consciousness can reach another. The story is Wallace's most
unrelieved single instance: a whole psyche whose reaching-out is itself the
mechanism of its isolation.
- Weight: restatement (oeuvre-scoped)